Tuesday, March 06, 2007

Morning Insights...........

Here I am pouring my thoughts on this blog.. Kinda mushy but a blog is like a diary except you post it on a website for everyone to feel what you feel.. I just had this thought in my head about the most mysterious emotion of all....love.. Yes love again.. Like I said before that love is not a game but a rule on how to treat your partner right.. I see people saying that love gives us pain and suffering, but on my opinion it doesn't. It's like breaking a rule in sports, once you break them it's annoying since you tried to follow every rule that the certain sport has implied. Simple things like the do's and don'ts of a game.. The same thing goes for love.. It's not just annoying but painful when you break a rule since you get immersed in the emotion. The game is life itself and love is just a rule.. How do you go thru life? These are the certain rules on different aspects of life: Career-concentration Friendship-sympathy Family-respect Relationships(love)-passion.. It's not hard to do the other things compared to love which is why it is harder to sustain.. How can you have passion without the drive to feel it? I mean if you don't really feel something for the person and you know that the relationship's not doing you any good then why pursue? And another issue is boredom.... People can feel if their partner's not putting enough effort on the relationship that they have built..

Here's what I think of relationships------------>



It is like knowing the blueprint of a building and only telling it to one person.. Then comes the building part where you share the troubles of knowing how to make it look like the blueprint.. The last part is how to maintain it, keeping it clean etc.. The blueprint is the conversation of what made you two interested with each other.. The building part is where you take your relationship to a higher level and hoping it would be finished with a unique ambience but still following the blueprint or the basics of how you two got attracted to each other.. How to maintain it is the hardest part since people are used to change.. They want everything to be like the first time.. Imagine eating spagetti for 3 years straight.. Wouldn't you go insane? Ok ok it's not like I'm saying that people should change partners every so often.. What I mean is that to maintain a relationship people should spice things up between their partner. It's like changing the interior of the building that two lovebirds have built.. Get the picture??? If one of them doesn't cooperate then it is obvious that the person concerned has given up and got bored of the relationship.. Passion to maintain the building....................It's hard but isn't that what people wanted to do in the first place? They want to experience love then live by the rules.. You can never skip nor go back.. Just go where the river takes you and wait until you reach the end.. Never expect...... For it might lead you to living a life of false hope.. It's just like a mirage in the middle of the dessert where you expect to drink from it and turns out that it was all in your imagination.. The more you expect the more it will fade.. And the time comes where you lose all hope and not have the power to go further which leads to blaming oneself and others for your mistake.. WOOT!!!!! I've been too engrossed in writing I didn't realize the time anyways hope that anyone who reads this would be inspired coz for me it did.............hehe weird inspiring my own self.....LOL HAHA

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