Has anyone ever noticed why my posts are mostly about love??haha it's simple, coz I'm inspired to do so..:D Wonder if she likes to read these mushy posts of mine..haha Anyway here's one:
Ever heard the phrase that the physical doesn't count, it's what's inside the person that matters? Well I believe in that phrase but not completely.. Ofcourse the physical comes first because that is what you initially see.. You won't approach someone who looks like a killer or a drug addict, right? Yes, looks can be deceiving at times that is why you should know the person first before getting emotionally attached.. Humans have this notion that if something's beautiful in one aspect then the rest follows.. Well not for everything.. Ever heard of compensation? It is done in order to mask something unpleasant for it to be accepted.. But ofcourse we can't choose what physical attributes we would want to have before we were born, but what I mean is that people tend to abuse these traits.. They think that being physically attractive would get them whatever they want.. Since most people have the same mentality, it is what they do as part of their nature.. The sad part is that when the mask is removed it would create a great misunderstanding between the people concerned.. Just like in a relationship.. It's not right to just focus on the outer beauty alone.. Why? Ok I'm going to repeat it again.. People engage in a relationship to experience true love.. If Love is an abstract emotion.. Then it relies on nothing of the physical.. True love is beauty..it is a work of art.. it is indistructable.. If you say that you love the person cause she's beautiful or he's handsome then that is not love.. Physical beauty can be shattered and once it does shatter then the so called love is lost.. Ever know why it is hard to love someone? It's because love is too beautiful and powerful to handle.. Once engaged, it will be imbeded in the hearts of the lovers.. Wheter you love the person through physical or metaphysical means.. Both go as one that is why they feel the same way.. Don't be fooled with what you think is love and in the end is just pure infatuation.. Remember the most important view is the metaphysical.. It is the other half of love that lasts forever.. People try to find partners who has this mentality for them not to be rejected in the end.. They fear that their lover might not love them when the time comes.. The fear of being left alone when their physical assets have done it's part and vanished.. We then try to look beyond what is normally seen to know if what we feel is real.. For me it should be 5% physical and 95% metaphysical.. that way we can love both parts and still feel the reality of things..
Anyways, I'm beat.. so guys just post a comment down below..:) Wait for futher posts coz I think I won't be doing much this summer except for writing.. Ever since I got an inspiration, ideas just start pouring like rain.. Soooo bye for now..... Panda signing out...pzzt
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